People are pretty forgiving when it comes to other people's families. The only family that ever horrifies you is your own.
People can be more forgiving than you can imagine. But you have to forgive yourself. Let go of what's bitter and move on.
My desire is to be a forgiving non-judgmental person.
The ineffable joy of forgiving and being forgiven forms an ecstasy that might well arouse the envy of the gods.